Naomi ([info]naomikritzer) wrote,
@ 2005-02-22 01:17:00
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A friend pointed out to me that I haven't said much about Molly in a while. Kiera tends to grab more blog space because she's going through a period of rapid change -- there's nothing quite like the second year of life for good "and TODAY my kid learned the following new trick" material. But Molly is also a very interesting little person.

About two weeks ago, for instance, we bought a jar of peanut butter to go into something I was cooking. We don't normally keep peanut butter around, because it's a serious temptation to Ed, but having ordered it, I offered Molly a peanut-butter-and-jelly sandwich for lunch one day at home. She was really excited -- her friend Rose gets a PBJ in her lunch at preschool every day (Molly normally gets to choose between string cheese and Ritz crackers, and pita bread with hummous). We didn't have any bread, so what I actually offered her was a peanut butter and jelly English muffin. For her afternoon snack, she asked for another one. "You just had a peanut butter and jelly English muffin two hours ago," I said. "Don't you want something else?"

"I had no idea you could make me peanut butter and jelly English muffins," she said breathlessly. "Peanut butter and jelly on an English muffin -- of course I want another one!"

Today she didn't have preschool because it was a school release day, so in the morning I set up the easel so that she and Kiera could paint. She made a picture of a roller coaster; one of her current library books has a picture of a bunch of kids on a roller coaster and now Molly is fascinated with the idea of getting to ride one, though I think she'd be completely freaked out even by a pretty small one if she rode one now. She cut up some paper into strips, wrapped it up in a handmade envelope, and addressed it to Ed as a gift. (He opened it at dinnertime and was rather puzzled.) She helped make Jell-O, and then later helped make bread.

She is still fascinated with babies. When we go to the library, I try to introduce her to the concept of library research by asking her if there's anything she wants to know more about, that we can look for books about. We checked out books about gardens for a while, then wildflowers, then trees; lately, it's been babies, babies, and more babies. Having exhausted the available baby-related books in the Lake Street children's section, I took her over to the adult section to see if they had anything of interest. (A Child Is Born would be shelved with the adult books, after all, not in Juvenile, and she loved that book.) I didn't see anything I thought she'd be interested in, but read her the titles, and let her look inside what they had. She chose Vicki Iovine's The Girlfriend's Guide to Toddlers. And has had us read long sections of it to her. I find this hilarious and inexplicable; I think Vicki's humor is not exactly on a four-year-old's wavelength.

Her favorite thing to do, I think, is draw: she prefers magic markers but will use whatever's handy. I bought her some Cray-Pas at Michael's a few weeks ago but she isn't terribly interested. (She used them a little today, but only because I was playing with them and she got jealous.) She goes through an absolutely astonishing amount of paper. As a project on Sunday, we made an All About Molly book where I interviewed her ("What do you like to do on your own? What's your favorite thing to eat?"), wrote out pages, and then handed them to her to illustrate. I found her pictures really charming and funny. Her favorite thing to do with me, apparently, is play the Dora Game; her favorite thing to do with Ed is to play Candyland. Her favorite thing to do with Kiera? "Ask her for things back."



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[info]porphyrin
2005-02-22 01:00 pm UTC (link)
She sounds absolutely adorable.

If you need scrap paper, Roo is NOT into drawing, and I have a ream, literally, of 8.5 x 11 that's printed on on one side but blank on the other.

Additional, nearly unrelated: I read Iovine's "Toddlers" book when Roo was a baby and didn't get it. Having reread it recently, I nearly cramped from laughing too hard.

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[info]naomikritzer
2005-02-22 04:13 pm UTC (link)
I was unimpressed by "The Girlfriend's Guide to Pregnancy" but I thought the Toddlers book (which I read when Molly was a toddler) was actually both funny and insightful.

We have noooooooooo shortage of computer paper, but thanks for the offer :-)

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[info]irihs
2005-02-22 02:26 pm UTC (link)
Wow. It sounds like Molly will have more research experience by kindergarten than the experience that many college students have. At least in my experience with trying to teach freshman how to research a paper. Teaching her how to find things in the library is a wonderful idea!

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[info]naomikritzer
2005-02-22 04:19 pm UTC (link)
Well, just to be clear, at this point I'm just trying to introduce the idea that if there's something she wants to know more about, we can find books about it. It's not like I'm teaching her to use the card catalog at this point, or explaining the difference between the Library of Congress and Dewey Decimal systems.

I do realize that some college freshmen come in without even this fundamental basic concept, though. When my mother was teaching at WVU she started giving her students an assignment at the beginning of the semester to write a short research paper on anything at all that interested them, just to teach them the concepts of, "go to library, look up subject matter, find books, check them out, read them, absorb information, write paper." The things I found most heartbreaking about this story: (1) she wasn't even teaching freshmen -- some of these students were juniors and seniors in college, and (2) some of these students got really excited over the stuff they learned. The intellectual curiosity was there, but no one had ever given them the most basic tools.

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